How My Mother Saved Me From My Mexican Kindergarten Bully

How My Mother Saved Me From My Mexican Kindergarten Bully

Mary Mata October 5, 2011

I had a horrible time in Mexican Kindergarten. Much of it had it can be blamed on me. I had not developed any kind of social instincts at the age […]

The Heavenly Innocence Of My Son’s Guesses At My Age

Mary Mata September 27, 2011

I love the age of innocence and candor of a child. Throughout his short life, my son has only guessed at my age using the limited information he has acquired about […]

Of Carne Asada, Crime And Family In East LA

Mary Mata September 21, 2011

The summer of 1988 was a memorable one in my neighborhood. We still lived in that yellow house on Bodie Street in East LA. The sun still managed to leave evidence […]

I Fell In Love Online But No One Is Happy For Me

Mary Mata September 15, 2011

Dear Martha: I desperately need your opinion because I feel like no one understands me, or supports me. I’m a 26 year-old divorced woman with two children currently living with […]

When The Remote Control Determines Who’s In Charge

Mary Mata September 6, 2011

This morning my son Conor watched TV from the breakfast room as he ate waffles and fresh strawberries for breakfast. He decides that he doesn’t like the great wisdom Spongebob is […]

It’s Show Time: The First Day Of School

Mary Mata August 30, 2011

Today I am back on the clock. The morning ritual begins at 6 a.m. I walk into the bathroom and pull back my hair and wash my face with cold […]

Should I Choose Love, Or Becoming A Mother?

Mary Mata August 25, 2011

Dear Martha, I’m so scared. I love my partner but my partner confessed that he has a disease that is degenerative and eventually can not bear children. I love him […]

Mother Punishes Son With Chile, Could Go To Jail

Mary Mata August 24, 2011

An Alaska woman was convicted of misdemeanor child abuse after she poured hot sauce in the mouth of her adopted Russian son after he lied to her. Not only that, […]

Learning To Clean The Beans: A Latino Rite Of Passage

Mary Mata

I remember being a little girl on my tip toes peeking over to see what my mom was doing, making very methodical sounds, looking very concentrated, staring over a pile […]

My Immigrant Mother Became Someone Else In The U.S.

Mary Mata August 11, 2011

Dear Martha: Since we came to the United States, my family has changed a lot. My parents separated and my mom, who works really hard for her four kids, has […]