A Girl’s Guide To Responding To Catcalls

A Girl’s Guide To Responding To Catcalls

Mary Mata August 31, 2011

I remember being a chubby and dorky 13 year-old girl and getting honked at by creeps when I walked in my neighborhood. Since I was so incredibly awkward and unattractive, […]

I Believe In Love, Just Not Weddings

Mary Mata August 24, 2011

I’ve always wondered if little girls really fantasize about their wedding day. I’ve never known a woman who actually did this. When I was a little girl, I mostly fantasized […]

I Can Tell You’re Latina By How You Gesticulate

Mary Mata August 17, 2011

Recently I was at an event when an elderly white gentleman approached me and began a conversation. After we got over the whole “It’s Sara, not Sarah,” part of my […]

My Father, Machismo, Baseball And “The Talk”

Mary Mata

At one time in our lives, our parents called us to their side, and even though they assured us we were not in trouble, we saw they were visibly nervous. […]

Pegue, Also Known As “Mojo”

Mary Mata August 10, 2011

So recently, and for some inexplicable reason, I seem to have some pretty strong pegue. For those of us not in the know, “pegue,” is the word used to describe […]

LGBTQ Latinos Need Better Reproductive Care

Mary Mata June 20, 2011

A new report from the National Latina Institute for Reproductive Health (NLIRH) finds that cultural and linguistic barriers, among others, affect how LGBTQ Latinos receive reproductive care. An excerpt from the report noted: […]

Sinvergüenza Spotlight: Anthony Weiner

Mary Mata June 17, 2011

U.S .Representative Anthony Weiner (D- NY) has had a hard few weeks. So much so, that he just recently has been driven to the point of requesting a leave of […]

Mother Of Arnold’s Latino Son Speaks

Mary Mata June 16, 2011

Guatemalteca Mildred Baena recently gave an interview to Hello! Magazine and posed for a photo with her son by former employer/lover Arnold Schwarzenegger. She spoke about a few different topics: […]

Why Is It Ok To Be Gay As Long As We Don’t Talk About It?

Mary Mata May 25, 2011

There are lots of reasons why I simply don’t “get” homophobia. I’m not going to go into all of them, but as a Latina, one aspect of homophobia I’ve never […]

The Drive-By Cat Call: Not Hot

Mary Mata May 17, 2011

“Heeeeeey!” I don’t suppose I’ll ever understand why, exactly, men think this is a good way to attract attention. I’ve never been tempted in the slightest to return these calls […]