How Do I Make My Boyfriend Of 8 Years Propose?

How Do I Make My Boyfriend Of 8 Years Propose?

Mary Mata September 8, 2011

Dear Martha: I wanted to know what you think about my problem. I am 26 and have been in a relationship for eight years, things haven’t always been easy with […]

I Believe In Love, Just Not Weddings

Mary Mata August 24, 2011

I’ve always wondered if little girls really fantasize about their wedding day. I’ve never known a woman who actually did this. When I was a little girl, I mostly fantasized […]

Help! My Husband Is An Alcoholic & I’m Unhappy

Mary Mata August 4, 2011

Dear Martha: I have lived the past 20 years with an alcoholic. I have stayed in the relationship because, first, I thought he would change. Later I did it for […]

What Do I Have To Do To Win My Husband’s Approval?

Mary Mata July 28, 2011

Dear Martha: I am a bank teller, I am 25 years old and my husband is 32. My husband thinks I am increasingly worth less because he says I have […]

News Taco To Go: Marriage, Prosperity, Arizona, Immigration

Mary Mata July 21, 2011

I Wanted To Marry A Latino And Fell For A White Guy How To Ensure Prosperity For 15 Million Latinos Arizona Can Begin Border Wall Construction Today How Intermarriage, Immigration […]

I Wanted To Marry A Latino, Fell For A White Guy

Mary Mata July 20, 2011

In college there was no doubt in my mind that I would marry a Mexican. I didn’t want my culture to be diluted. I wanted to live in a Spanish-speaking […]

My Lover Is Cheating On Me, Do I Leave My Husband?

Mary Mata July 14, 2011

Dear Martha, I love my husband and we have been married 15 years, he is a good person and loves my two children, we are stabile and people admire us. […]

Father’s Day & Learning To Love My Father

Mary Mata June 17, 2011

“Tu no has sido adulto, pero yo si fui niño y adulto.” You have not been an adult, but I have already been a child and adult — that’s what […]

Mother Of Arnold’s Latino Son Speaks

Mary Mata June 16, 2011

Guatemalteca Mildred Baena recently gave an interview to Hello! Magazine and posed for a photo with her son by former employer/lover Arnold Schwarzenegger. She spoke about a few different topics: […]

Lots Of Latinos Don’t Have Spanish Surnames (Like Me)

Mary Mata June 15, 2011

So you’re probably wondering, how does the surname “Calderón” not count as a Spanish surname? Well, it does. But my other last name, Schuessler, certainly doesn’t. I’ve been thinking recently, […]